Over the years I dealt with anger after loss in many different ways and continue to do so. What I didn’t realize until today is that I have developed a…
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Life after loss is a work of art. It takes decades of creating. It roars behind the clouds and screams at night in our souls. It is the most powerful…
We hold on to what we have built and have created with average success and average joy, fearing that if we let it go we would not be able to…
I have taught myself to listen to my inner voice really carefully. It has incredible wisdom about my destiny and my present happiness. In the last two years, my voice…
We are not looking to create a perfect life after loss… but a life we are proud of. We can never ever go back to the innocence we had before…
I tried to think where to start. He had died not even a couple months before. The girls were 4 and 6 years old. He was the one with the…
A hundred years from now you and I will not be here anymore. Where we have lived, someone else will be living. Where we have walked, someone else will be…
The way I see the world after loss is not very traditional. But it is one that has saved my life and the lives of many others. This is what…
You are a writer, a phenomenal, mind blowing writer born to write up a universe. Born to put words together like a big ocean. Like a mountain. Like a human…
In a few days Second Firsts will be 5 years old. I vividly remember the night I came up with the name. It was 2:00am. I was crying. I was…
