When I look back at myself and remember my fears after my loss, I wish I could go back in time and tell myself a few things. You see, something…
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Grief is so competitive. When I first started doing this work and started to share my own losses the people with ‘bigger’ tragedies than mine would send me a lot…
There were no whispers, no words, nor any kind of guidance about all the other things that would happen after he died. Nobody mentioned the silence. The loss of financial…
My life began after the loss of my husband. Before his passing, I was living my life in a default state. Graduate from college, get married, have kids, make friends,…
I tried to think where to start. He had died not even a couple months before. The girls were 4 and 6 years old. He was the one with the…
Crawling inside my small closet sobbing had become a frequent visit. It was the only place in our two level, ranch house in Concord, Mass, where I would not be…
I first met her after my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. Her first words were… you should have been the one dying. It would have been easier….
When your life turns upside down because of loss, where does your mind go next naturally? You would think it would go to the loss. And yes it does, but…
The further away I am from the tragic loss of my husband the simpler life gets for me, not because time heals, but because I know myself better. It took…
Nothing can stop it. Nobody can press pause. No kings. No Queens. No presidents. Nobody has been able to stop AGING. Nobody has been able to stop us from growing…
