Grief is so competitive. When I first started doing this work and started to share my own losses the people with ‘bigger’ tragedies than mine would send me a lot…
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I have to be honest and say this. After my loss I listened to the wrong people…the people who had no clue how it is to go through loss at…
Two years ago I had a dream. I dreamed about a world where we go to reenter after loss. That world brought together the loneliest hearts so they could no…
I see you preparing for the holidays with your head down. Your heart broken. Your tears frozen. Your body in agony. The holidays can have this effect. There is no…
I had been sitting inside this small cubicle for a while by then. I remember that day being just like all the others before it. But that cold winter morning…
When I woke in my bed in the dark I had a knowing that there will be many dark nights ahead. Nights dark beyond black. Nights dark beyond the deepest…
Last night I sat in a room full of women who lost their beloved husbands. Well I wasn’t really sitting with them but I was on a big screen via…
There will be many mistakes in your life after loss if you live it fully. You will make the wrong turns. You will absolutely say the wrong things. Date the…
I am afraid to leave. How can I go? I don’t even know that I want to go. Things are not bad, just not ideal. What about the kids? I…
